Life in All Its Bits and Pieces

A few years ago, around 2008, I took on a side business of creating websites for small business owners. At the time, I was working full-time. So it ended up to be too much for me. So I stopped offering my services as a website designer. From the few clients I worked with at that time, two remained clients to this day. Over the years, the programs that I used to design graphics and websites became obsolete and no longer were upgraded. It came a time when I could no longer maintain these websites. So I ended up redoing these two clients’ website using WordPress. Actually, it is a total of four clients if I count my husband and myself. You are welcome to visit these websites if you are so inclined. Just click on the pictures below.

Here’s a bit of trivia. Did you know that WordPress is “The largest self-hosted blogging tool in the world, used on millions of sites and seen by tens of millions of people every day.”? It is estimated that 18.9 % of all websites are WordPress sites. This means about 74,652,825 sites. Isn’t that quite something? That does impress me! So WordPress is a very good choice when it comes to creating websites and it is easy to maintain and update. Its blog function is invaluable as well. This blog/website is a WordPress site.

Now that I’m retired, getting back to website design is one of the options opened to me. It seems that life is leading me in that direction again. A bit over a week ago, a friend contacted me asking if I would be interested in working on a website for her.  Then a couple of days later, I was talking to another friend and I offer to help her with her website. This is what I have been working on for the past week. Once this website is complete, I’ll be sure to share it here.

I’ve also started to upgrade my skills in terms of graphics and website design. Things have changed a lot since 2008. I mean a LOT! I have kept abreast of some of the changes but there is so much I don’t know. My goal is to learn to do websites from scratch. This is so that I can fully customize my designs. I think it could also be fun (yes, I did write fun!) to design my own WordPress theme and sell them. But I’m getting ahead of myself. One thing at a time.

It’s been interesting observing myself as I’ve returned to doing websites. I’m definitely learning things about myself. One thing about me is that I tend to go at a task till it is done. Things, like eating, going to the washroom, etc., are interruptions I can do without. In fact, I sometimes resent those interruptions very much so! This isn’t so bad if the task is a small one, that might take an hour or two or half a day, When the task is huge, though, as it is with doing a website design, it becomes unhealthy for me and those around me. Many of times, in the past, I have snapped at my husband for disturbing me with life’s necessities. This week, although I have not snapped at my husband, I have found myself obsessing about this website doing very little else. And you know what? That does not feel good! It feels very unbalanced in fact. Life goes on and all of its bits and pieces are worth living, not just some parts of it. So hmmm… I’m listening. Life in all its bits and pieces is a gift. It is all the bits and pieces that make life worth living. It is in making space and time for all these bits and pieces that I feel grounded and balanced. When I obsess over one of those bits and resent all the other bits for interrupting this obsession, I feel disconnected from life and from myself. This is so important for me to know this about myself. It’s empowering. It gives me the opportunity to tweak things. This is a very good thing.

I’m happy to have resumed my love affair with website design. I absolutely love the aesthetic of website design: the colours, the textures, all of it! The artist in me is over the moon with that. It is now up to me to see how I can incorporate this in my life in a way that is healthy and nurturing. I’m pretty sure I can figure this out!

8 Replies to “Life in All Its Bits and Pieces”

  1. I can sure relate to over-focusing on a task. Obsession, I think its called! It’s interesting, I never really read the words “losing myself” in time doing what I love. In a good way. The everyday things cannot be forgotten though. Life doesn’t stop just because I’m caught up in creating. Your blog is great. It hits home for me. Thank you.

    • Thank you, for your comment, Kathie. I’m glad that it hits home. I wish no one would have to struggle but that is unrealistic. So if we can share and be there for each other in those struggles and cheer each other in making it to the other side, that’s the very best.

  2. Ginette, this post so resonated with me! I totally understand fully engaging in something (my blog) and being frustrated by life’s interruptions. Balance is my word for 2017 and I’m afraid it’s a constant struggle. I’m finding it difficult, working from home, to shut off the computer and close my office door at 5 pm. Recently I recognized that the blog has become an addiction and has taken over my life. Working solo at home for so long I’ve become a bit agoraphobic (that was hard to write), another recent recognition. So for you to figure this out so early in your “work from home venture” is very positive. I hope you write more about this subject.

    • Marie, thank you for sharing your experience with being out of balance. Recognition is the first step. So good job on recognizing these two life issues. I know it isn’t easy. For me, the way I feel is what clues me in. When I’m out of balance, I feel awful about myself. At this time in my life, it’s primordial that I figure out how to live in a way that brings me peace and joy. I wish you the same. Of course <3

  3. Website design can certainly be fun and designing templates even more so! I love WordPress. It’s a pretty great system. I’m also the same way with tasks or things I enjoy. I go ALL IN! No stopping. I’ve been painting for about a week straight now and my eyes are getting buggy. Thankfully, family commitments this weekend are taking me away so it’s a forced break back to life. We’ll figure it out one day. Maybe. LOL. 🙂

    • Thanks for your comment, Sal! All of or nothing, yes, very familiar with that! Thank goodness for family commitments or other life commitments. It forces us to to be a bit more balanced. Here’s to figuring it out!

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